One of the biggest obstacles that hold the widowed on from moving on are constant reminders of their loss. If you don’t think most women will get over it or used to it, ask yourself what it would be like to see that the name of her ex-boyfriend or ex-husband ever y time you looked at her or got into bed with her.

Though most widowers probably aren’t even thinking about dating again when they get a memorial tattoo, once they start another relationship, the tattoo usually gets in the way. It will interfere with future relationships.Better yet, through your actions, be the kind of person the late wife would be proud of if she were still around. If you really want to keep someone’s memory alive, raise money for charity, start a scholarship, or some other activity that can help and benefit others. There are better ways to remember someone.If you really feel that you need to memorialize your late spouse with a tattoo, wait a year and see how you feel the same way. Emotional decisions rarely turn out well. Most tattoos commemorating the deceased are purely emotional decisions made soon after the loss of the spouse. For widowers who may be considering getting one, here are 5 reasons not to get a tattoo that memorializes the late wife. Awhile back I wrote about how GOWs and WOWs can deal with widowers who have memorial tattoos on their body.

Remembrance tattoo